Do NOT Elope before reading this: 3 mistakes to avoid

“Should I elope? Is it the right thing to do?”

If these questions have been going round and round in your mind, don't worry, it's totally normal!

Gone are the days when weddings were all about big, grand affairs with celebrations going on for endless days. These are the times of elopement weddings and they are quickly gaining popularity.

You may wish to elope with your partner to avoid lavish celebrations or you don't see any point in spending too much of your money on a one-day event; perhaps you have even dreamt of a wedding as an intimate affair up in the mountains or at a gorgeous beach of your choice.

Whatever your reason may be, eloping makes sense for many modern and fun-loving couples. 

Before you begin elopement planning, here are a few mistakes you should avoid.

I have prepared a list of essential “DON’Ts” and the mistakes you should avoid making in your wedding planning.

Go through them before getting ready to say I DO.

1. Don't forget about the Legalities

 As we all know elopement weddings have a stress-free feel to them.  But certain factors such as legalities should be dealt with promptly. 

• You should secure witnesses and a registered officiant for your big day as soon as possible.
• In addition to this, you should also consider obtaining your marriage license early as some of the states may have a waiting period. It’s important to carefully read through the regulations and to understand the nature of the paperwork and ID you require, as well as any other documentation needed.
• Another option is to have your legal ceremony back home and then renew your vows or have a symbolic ceremony at your destination.

2. Don't Book Any Package Without Looking It Over

 Some planners may offer you customized and dedicated elopement packages. These packages could include in-house photographers, stylists, florists, romantic dinners as well as accommodation.

Make sure to go through all the elements included in the offer, especially details of the photographer; and make sure you sign any agreement.

If you can't meet your vendors before your big day, then arrange for a Zoom meeting so you can make sure they get a sense of you and your expectations and vice versa.

If you're having a destination elopement, then allow yourself enough time to arrive early (at least the day before), settle down comfortably, and meet the team involved in person.

3. Don't Handle Budget Irresponsibly

Even if you are able to grab a discounted deal or a consolidated package there are chances that your intimate wedding may go beyond the planned budget.

Instead of wondering, “should I elope at all”, due to unexpected costs, you should sit with your partner and discuss all financial implications as early in the planning as possible to avoid any last-minute hassles.

Leave behind thoughts of “Should I Elope”!

And most importantly DON'T feel guilty if you have planned an intimate elopement wedding with your loved one. Make it special for both of you and prepare to celebrate the biggest event of your life.

The best thing about an elopement is that you can do exactly what you want in the way you want to.

If you are still wondering whether you should elope or not, I have a solution for you. Try my questionnaire – “Should I elope” - You can purchase it below and get all the answers you need!